Women - As Portrayed by Kollywood Songs

I am writing this blog with a concern which has been bugging my mind for a long time and finally I want to let my thoughts out of my mind and reach people. My concern is the way women are portrayed in the Kollywood movie songs (since I understand the lyrics better there :P ). Let it be "Kadhal en Kadhal (Mayakkam Enna)" or "why this Kolaveri (3)" or "Pengal Endral Poiyyae Poi thana (Neethane En Pon Vasantham)" or "Hey Baby (Raja Rani)" or many more. Why do media always portray women in the negative shade? I could have written this blog when the thought struck me for the first time but I thought this is just one song for fun but when the trend increased I couldn't digest the fact of fun on the self-esteem of women at stake!! Let me share my view on the above songs in the movie they are in.

 
Let me start with Mayakkam Enna – Kadhal En Kadhal – In this movie the heroine is not ditching the hero even though the hero is psychologically depressed. The hero has a song stating “Adida avala, vetra avala” for the heroine, whereas the hero gets a sympathetic song “Pirai thedum Iravilae” when he is in the depressed state.

     

In the movie 3 – why this Kolaveri?  The hero (Dhanush) could not handle his bipolar disorder and attempts suicide leaving the heroine alone. Just because of one sentence the heroine said that she is going to US which was already discussed between them, the hero has this song. In spite the heroine (Shruthi Hasan) married him against her parents wish.

     
In the movie Neethane En Pon Vasantham - Pengal Endral Poiyae Poi thana- this is the height of everything I described. First of all I feel the movie is a crap where the hero does everything and finally blames the heroine. The worst part is, the director made the story in such a way that the heroine is dumb enough to accept whatever hero says without even giving a second thought to it due to her mad love with him (kadhal kannai maraikum enbargal buthiyayum maraithathu ingae :P )  

In the movie Raja Rani – Hey Baby - Not only the hero (Arya) but also the heroine (Nayantara) is not happy with the marriage, but only Arya has a song asking the girl to move out of his life and especially the line "nimadhiyae illa machan pona ava veetuku" as if the heroine feels happy when he comes :P . My concern is this, why does the media portray women in the negative shade though they have the same feeling (why didn't people have a song for the heroine asking the hero to move out of her life)   

Though heroines don’t ditch the heroes, why do the media have a SOUP SONG for guys portraying women in the negative shade?? Don’t you think you have the responsibility to convey the right message to the people?? Why is this happening?? Is it because majority of the people working and writing the song are men where you unknowingly from your subconscious mind blaming women for all the faults?? Why do you convey this kind of message unnecessarily when this is not needed in the first place? Actually speaking we can count the number of songs on motherhood which actually tells the sacrifice the women do than this type of songs. I actually don’t want you people to praise women but please don’t put their self-esteem at stake when it is not necessary at all. Media - when you interview these people please put forth these questions instead asking what was the funny incident that happened in the shooting spot or rather digging out their personal life. 

My humble request to lyricists or directors - just because you get a mass hit out of these songs please don't portray women in negative shades unnecessarily!!